Achieving Personal Fulfillment Ezine (sm)

"Positive Psychology to the Rescue" (sm)
March 2008

Published by Maurine D. Patten, Ed.D., CMC
Founder & CEO, Patten Coaching & Consulting
www.pattencoaching.com

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In This Issue:

1. Preview

2. Use This Checklist to Increase Your Happiness

3. Getting into Action

4. Looking Ahead

1. Preview

Achieving Personal Fulfillment Ezine explores how to progress rapidly from dreams to action.  It is a free monthly email newsletter written by Maurine D. Patten, life/business coach and clinical psychologist.

Using Positive Psychology, topics are presented from the perspective of Maurine Patten and are provided to help you get the results you want.  It will help you manage change, improve your Emotional Intelligence and make better decisions with less effort. 

It is possible to be happier.  On-going research in the area of Positive Psychology helps identify thinking and behavior patterns of happy people.  This issue gives you a checklist you can use to increase your level of happiness. 

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2. Use This Checklist to Increase Your Happiness

Research studies indicate that your genes are responsible for fifty percent of your happiness level.  Circumstances in your life are responsible for another ten percent.  The good news is that research studies are clearly showing that the remaining forty percent of your happiness level depends on choices you make. 

In addition, more skills and factors are being identified that help maximize your potential for reaching your goals and enjoying life.  This is important because feeling happy has many benefits.  Some of the benefits are:

  • Being healthier and living longer.
  • Having better relationships.
  • Having more energy.
  • Being more curious and willing to learn new things.
  • Making more money.
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3. Getting into Action

The book, The How of Happiness (2008), by Sonja Lyubomirsky discusses how what you do and how you think affects the choices you make.  Since the daily choices you make fall into the forty percent area of happiness that is under your control, it is important to know which choices will enhance your happiness level. 

You may be surprised to see what choices happy people make.  Use the following checklist to discover what you are currently doing and what you might want to add to increase your sense of well-being.  Happy people do as many of the following things as possible:

  • Set aside time for family and friends, nurturing and enjoying those relationships.
  • Feel comfortable expressing gratitude for what they have.
  • Freely offer to help coworkers or strangers.
  • Practice optimism when they think of the future.
  • Try to live in the present and savor pleasures.
  • Exercise regularly.
  • Are committed to lifelong goals and ambitions.
  • Are resilient during challenging times.
It is best to chose one or two strategies listed above that will work for you.  You do not have to do all of these to increase your level of happiness.
 
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4. Looking Ahead

It is important to find a place to begin.  Use this checklist to establish what is working for you now and what one or two ideas you might choose to add to your daily life.  Think of your strengths and what is important to you.  It may take some effort at first.  Make sure you have people around you that support what you are doing. 

Then reap the rewards of feeling happier.  It is worth the effort.  If you need a coach to help you, I would love to hear from you.

Maurine Patten
mdpcoach@pattencoaching.com

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About Maurine D. Patten, Ed.D.. CMC

Maurine Patten is a clinical psychologist and certified life/business/retirement coach.  Her professional career includes: independent business owner (27 years), Assistant Professor at Chicago State University and consultant for education and business. She is a graduate of the MentorCoach program and a member of the International Coach Federation. She is experienced in training and management development for large national and international firms. She has a strong background in working with individuals and couples on clarifying and achieving goals.

Dr. Patten has training in coaching, cognitive and family therapy and health psychology. She has published articles, made presentations, and conducted workshops about:
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Creating a Fulfilling Retirement
  • Anxiety and Achievement
  • Stress Management
  • Self-Esteem
  • Communication Skills
  • Marital/relationship Enrichment
  • Wellness Issues
  • The Psychology of Happiness 
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