Achieving Personal Fulfillment Ezine (sm)

"Positive Psychology to the Rescue"
May 2008

Published by Maurine D. Patten, Ed.D., CMC
Founder & CEO, Patten Coaching & Consulting
www.pattencoaching.com

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In This Issue:

1. Preview

2. 3 Principles of Success

3. Getting into Action

4. Looking Ahead

1. Preview

Achieving Personal Fulfillment Ezine explores how to progress rapidly from dreams to action.  It is a free monthly email newsletter written by Maurine D. Patten, life/business coach and clinical psychologist.

Using Positive Psychology, topics are presented from the perspective of Maurine Patten and are provided to help you get the results you want.  It will help you manage change, improve your Emotional Intelligence and make better decisions with less effort.

This issue gives you 3 principles that will help you be more successful in important areas of your life.

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2. 3 Principles of Success

Success is personal.  When you are successful with something, you are pleased with the outcome.  You may even be thrilled with the results.  It can be something that doesn't take a lot of your time, such as quickly getting a good meal together or somehting that takes many years, such as completing a graduate degree program.

Principles are guidelines or tools to help you achieve something that is important.  They simplify a lot of incoming data so that you do not get overwhelmed.  As you continue reading, remember that all principles can have exceptions.

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3. Getting into Action

What is something you want to be successful at in your life?  It may be in your personal life as a spouse or parent or in your career or work.

Alexandria Brown has a successful marketing business.  She credits her success to the following 3 principles:

  1. You are the average of the five people you choose to be with the most.
  2. Your habits create your future.
  3. Your environment needs to be supportive.
The first principle comes from Jim Rohn, whom some call the father of personal development and America's foremost business philosopher.  This principle picks up on the old saying "birds of a feather flock together".

What does this principle mean?  You will be similar to the people you tend to hang around in beliefs, values and bank account balance.  If you are trying to be successful in a new endeavor, make an effort to be with others who are also successful in that particular area.

The second principle is mentioned by many personal development or self-improvement experts including Brian Tracy.  "Your habits create your future" means that daily habits create long-term results.  Another way of saying this is that your habits today will determine your outcomes tomorrow.  This picks up on the old saying, "you reap what you sow".  If you want to be physically healthy, you have to have healthy physical habits. 

The third principle emphasizes the need to have an environment that supports your goals.  It has been pointed out by personal development experts that if you have an aquarium with a sick fish, you treat the water not the fish.    There are times when it is crucial to be in an environment that supports you at the level you want to be at - not at the level you are at now.

Environment can be thought of as:

  • Physical - Are you happy with your office and home?  What are some little touches you can add to enhance your physical environment so that it is more supportive?
  • Emotional - Are you getting the support you need from significant people in your life?  Have you asked for it?
  • Intellectual - Do you sitmulate yourself with new ideas and opportunities to learn new things?
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4. Looking Ahead

Following these three principles of success will keep you stadily moving forward.

  1. Who are the five people you choose to be with?
  2. What new habits can you start today?
  3. What new ideas do you want to check out this week?

I wish you the best of success on your journey.

If you need a coach to help you be more successful, I would love to hear from you.

Need a gift for someone.  Consider a coaching call.  Check my website, www.PattenCoaching.com/Resources for more information.


Maurine Patten
mdpcoach@pattencoaching.com

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About Maurine D. Patten, Ed.D., CMC

Maurine Patten, Ed.D is a clinical psychologist and certified life/retirement coach. Her professional career includes: independent business owner (27 yeaars),  Assistant Professor at Chicago State University, and consultant for education and business. She is a graduate of the MentorCoach program and a member of the International Coach Federation. She is experienced in training and management development for large national and international firms. She has a strong background in working with individuals and couples on clarifying and achieving goals.

Dr. Patten has training in coaching, Emotional Intelligence, retirement assessment and planning, cognitive therapy and health psychology. She has published articles, made presentations, and conducted workshops about:
  • Emotional Intelligence
  • Creating a Fulfilling Retirement
  • Reitrement Reality Check
  • Anxiety and Achievement
  • Stress Management
  • Self-Esteem
  • Communication Skills
  • Marital/relationship Enrichment
  • Wellness Issues
  • The Psychology of Happiness 
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